Shyness to a Confident Public Speaker

My name is Manisha Kumari Yadav, and I am 19 years old, hailing from Haripurwa-1. I live with my family, which includes my father, mother, and two younger brothers. Both of my parents work tirelessly as farmers. From a young age, I dreamed of pursuing a nursing course to serve my community, but our family's financial struggles made that goal seem distant. After completing my Secondary Education Examination (SEE), I enrolled in +2 and am currently in grade 12 at Keshor Garib Secondary School in Haripurwa-5.

In my earlier years, I was timid and easily frightened, especially when it came to speaking in front of others. I often kept to myself in the classroom, hesitant to voice my thoughts. However, everything began to change when I participated in the training program. This opportunity allowed me to engage more actively, make new friends, and discover my voice. The pivotal moment in my life came when I took part in the Rupantaran Life and Protective Skills Training of Trainers (ToT). This training equipped me with essential life skills and self-defense techniques that I had never encountered before. It was as if I had finally found the tools to shape my identity. With this newfound knowledge, my aspirations shifted toward serving society in meaningful ways. I learned how to respond to violence, manage finances, and understand the severe implications of child marriage and substance abuse. I also gained insights into menstruation hygiene management and the importance of identifying trustworthy individuals.

Today, my life tells a different story. I actively participate in various cultural programs, trainings, and seminars within my community. I confidently conduct orientations and workshops, and I perform street dramas alongside my Rupantaran and Child Club (CC) team. The respect I receive from community members is empowering; people value my opinions, and my colleagues often seek my advice. When they face issues, particularly those related to gender-based discrimination, I strive to understand their situations and offer thoughtful guidance. My parents have become my biggest supporters, and I am proud to contribute financially to our household. Hearing them call me "Chhori" (daughter) fills me with pride and joy. What I have achieved today is a testament to my commitment and the invaluable support of my mentors from Bagmati Welfare Society Nepal and World Vision. I am grateful for the opportunities that have allowed me to grow from a fearful girl into a confident leader ready to make a difference in my community.